You have to compromise and be positive and not lash out and be controlling in a relationship!
The only person you can change is yourself!
Either you love them for who they are, or you don’t love them. It’s pathetic when people say they love someone, then try to change them. All you gotta do is be honest, with yourself and them, and then stop wasting both of your time. I love when people actually love. ~ Alicia Ruebens
Be Patient! Good things take time 
You do not have to make your children into wonderful people 
Never waste your time trying to explain to people 
Moving on doesn’t mean you forget about things