Experience is the best teacher & lessons.
It doesn’t make you strong to shut yourself off numb yourself. That’s a coping mechanism but it’s the sign of weakness, not strength. Strength comes in how you handle the pain.
Experience is the best teacher & the darkest time is the precious lesson. We can’t avoid or run away, just be tough, smart & optimistic.
Never be reckless with someone else’s heart 
Allowing your past pain to affect your present situation 
Not everyone will understand your journey